Some things have been removed from the initial Suckage List, and some have been added. Lets take a look see: Removed or Resolved: Finding a new place for all my crap Organized said crap (always a work in progress) A new routine Sleeping at night Driving home from work Still on the list, or Added: Thinking about my what my life will look like in 6 months, 12 months, 2 years Missing the extended family/kids/friends Worrying about my mom Letting go of all the feelings I still have Remembering it is OK to put myself first Giving myself permission to be angry/to cry/to vent Practicing self love I know I get by with the help of my friends. And wine. Lots and lots of wine. Some of the items added to the list are HARD. Hard to conquer, hard to embrace, hard to do. One day at a time. One foot in front of the other.